Thursday (3/21) is World Down Syndrome Day. It is a day of celebration and of recognition. It is also a day of global awareness.
Honestly, I've about had it with awareness. I'm done, finished. Most people are aware of Down syndrome by now. They may not know exactly what is involved and may be very prejudicial as they base their opinions on outdated and incorrect information. But, they know it exists. Instead of having yet another day of awareness, I'd like to make World Down Syndrome Day one of remembrance and action.
Several things have weighed on me in the last little while. The first is a doll, made by a mother of a 13 year old girl with Down syndrome. They are called "Dolls for Downs" [spelled incorrectly]. The idea here is that "every child wants a doll that looks like themselves."
I don't agree and furthermore, I am uncomfortable with these dolls in principle.
Firstly, I dislike anything that has the potential to perpetuate the stereotype that all people with Down syndrome look the same. They don't. My son looks like the rest of my kids; an amalgam of mine and my husband's family. He does not look like these dolls any more than any other child with DS that I know personally. I find the description of "pudgy features" in the video to be extremely offensive.
Additionally, like the bald barbie debate for pediatric cancer patients, I'm going to take the stance that my son does not need this doll. He does not need another feel good, "isn't that cute!", soft focus awareness campaign (which is what this doll will surely turn into). He needs a medical profession who gives a damn. He needs a society that is tolerant and accepting of neurodiversity. He needs an education system that will not decide his future based on bureaucracy and preconceived notions. He does not need a doll whose proceeds line a private pocket, like most "awareness" paraphernalia does.
Honestly, I've about had it with awareness. I'm done, finished. Most people are aware of Down syndrome by now. They may not know exactly what is involved and may be very prejudicial as they base their opinions on outdated and incorrect information. But, they know it exists. Instead of having yet another day of awareness, I'd like to make World Down Syndrome Day one of remembrance and action.
Several things have weighed on me in the last little while. The first is a doll, made by a mother of a 13 year old girl with Down syndrome. They are called "Dolls for Downs" [spelled incorrectly]. The idea here is that "every child wants a doll that looks like themselves."
I don't agree and furthermore, I am uncomfortable with these dolls in principle.
Firstly, I dislike anything that has the potential to perpetuate the stereotype that all people with Down syndrome look the same. They don't. My son looks like the rest of my kids; an amalgam of mine and my husband's family. He does not look like these dolls any more than any other child with DS that I know personally. I find the description of "pudgy features" in the video to be extremely offensive.
Additionally, like the bald barbie debate for pediatric cancer patients, I'm going to take the stance that my son does not need this doll. He does not need another feel good, "isn't that cute!", soft focus awareness campaign (which is what this doll will surely turn into). He needs a medical profession who gives a damn. He needs a society that is tolerant and accepting of neurodiversity. He needs an education system that will not decide his future based on bureaucracy and preconceived notions. He does not need a doll whose proceeds line a private pocket, like most "awareness" paraphernalia does.